A WIFE'S DEVOTION
A Canadian Heroine of Nearly Eighty Years Ago
(By Janet Carnochan)
Originally Printed 1907
The story of the heroic exertions
of Maria Wait during four years, first to save the life of her
husband and next to obtain a full pardon or some amelioration
of his sufferings when a prisoner in Van Dieman's Land ( Australia),
is known to comparatively few persons and forms a remarkably
interesting page of Canadian History, giving us glimpses of governors,
judges, lawyers; a journey in the first place of seven hundred
miles in the days before the advent of railways, introducing
us to officials in Toronto, Kingston, Quebec, Lieutenant-Governor
Arthur and Lord Durham, Bishop Mountain, Wm. Hamilton Merritt,
M.P.P., Jesse Ketchum, and affords the dramatic ending of her
labors, the respite arriving only half an hour before that appointed
for the execution of. the prisoners. Next she travels from Niagara
to Kingston to visit her husband in the prison at Fort Henry
and returns to obtain signatures, this indefatigable woman, then
leaving her babe, takes a journey of three thousand miles, crossing
the Atlantic to intercede for her husband even at the foot of
the throne.
We now have glimpses of Charles Buller,
the Secretary of Lord Durham, Joseph Hume, Mrs.. Fry, Miss Strickland,
Mrs,. Opie, Mary Howitt, the Philanthropists Buxton, Clarkson,
Wilberforce, the Patriot Dan . O'Connell, Sir Robert Peel, Prince
Albert, the young Queen, our heroine meeting the best in the
fashionable, literary, political, philanthropic, and religious
world of that day.
Her letters show a well trained mind,
an affectionate heart, an indomitable will, and a deeply religious
spirit, while those of her husband show great vigor and close
reasoning powers, he having had some legal training, and we can
understand and pardon the bitterness with which he speaks when
we remember his sufferings. To all her other difficulties was
added that of insufficient means. We note with interest that
though so much is recorded of hardships and hard heartedness,
the letters of both husband and wife tell of many deeds of kindness,
the dark record. is broken by the silver lining of the cloud;
the benevolence of the people of three countries is recorded,
in Canada, United States, and England.
Maria Wait, nee Smith, seems from
her letters to have been born not far from Niagara, as was also
Benjamin Wait, he says "I was one of Canada's sons, born,
bred and rocked in the cradle of liberal principles. She was
my own, my native land." She was educated by Robert Randall,
who was also the early friend and patron of her husband. On the
tombstone of Robert Randall, at Lundy's Lane it is recorded that
he was "a victim of Colonial Misrule". He was fourteen
.years in the Legislature and went to England to complain of
the wrongs of Canada, was ruined in health and fortune, though
not in mental energy. Dying in 1834 he had taken part in the
efforts to break the power of the Family Compact, but was spared
the later troubles: These letters imply that the writers suffered
from being his friends.
The book from which the most of this
story is derived is a rather rare one. "Letters from Van
Dieman's Land, written during four. years imprisonment for political
offences, also letters of Mrs. Wait." The book is dedicated
to Thaddeus Smith, a brother of Mrs. Wait, and was published
in 1843.
The devoted wife returned from England
to Canada to petition Lord Sydenham, and finally the long separated
husband and wife met, he having escaped in an open boat was picked
up by a U.S. Whaler; wrecked on the coast of Brazil; spent a
month in Rio de Janiero and finally reached New York and found
his wife teaching in Buffalo. But alas this loving wife whether
worn out by anxiety or the fatigue she had undergone, or from
other cause lived. little more than a year after the return of
her husband, who, notwithstanding the extraordinary hardships
he had undergone, to which some of his companions succumbed,
lived to the age of 82, dying in Grand Rapids, Michigan, in 1895.
Whatever opinion may be held of those
who took part in the Rebellion of 1837-8, whether justified or
not, there can be no question that we are now enjoying the advantages
gained by that struggle, there can be no question either as to
the cruel treatment meted out both in Lower Canada where houses
were burnt and Savagery reigned, or to those executed here, particularly
those banished, the treatment of felons begin given to political
prisoners, they being herded with the vilest of convicts. There
is no question either as to the tyranny, injustice and oppression
of the Family Compact of which in these days we can have no conception.
While the total incapacity of Mackenzie as a military commander
must be noted, and while we must severely condemn him for bringing
from another country a force to invade his own land, we remember
that it is difficult sometimes to say what constitutes treason.
When successful the leader is a hero,
a patriot, when unsuccessful a rebel and a traitor.
But of the deeds of Mrs. Wait there
can be no divided opinion. Other women have performed heroic
deeds. Cathanne Douglas, who to save the life of her king, James
the First, of Scotland, in Stirling Castle, thrust her arm into
the staple in the absence of the bolt, breaking the bone, this
was the deed of a moment; our own Laura Secord's was the deed
of a day, long and toilsome indeed. Helen Walker, the original
of Jeanie Deans to save the life of a darling sister travelled
painfully for weeks. Prascovia Lopouloff the Elizabeth in the
Exiles of Siberia to save her father, endured hardships for months,
but this heroic woman, undeterred by difficulties, disappointments
and opposition gave years to the rescue of her husband and his
fellow prisoners, travelling many thousands of miles through
Canada and to England, and finally contemplated going to Van
Dieman's Land to be near the loved one and help in any way in
her power.
In Dent's history of the Rebellion
is a very graphic description of the Court House in Niagara at
the trial of Robert Gourlay in 1819, very much in the style of
Macaulay's Trial of Warren Hastings, and in this same building,
now the home of waifs from the old land, was Benjamin Wait confined.
A few days before, Morrrau had been tried, found guilty and executed,
now sixteen more were sentenced to death, of these the sentence
of thirteen was commuted, and three, Chandler, McLeod and Wait
were left for execution. A letter to a friend begins thus. "You,
Benjamin Wait shall be taken from the court to the place from
which you last came and there remain until the 25th August, when
between the hours of eleven and one you shall be drawn on a hurdle
to the place of execution and there hanged by the neck until
you are dead. The Lord have mercy on your soul! This sentence
was pronounced by Judge Jones, 11th August, 1838. The house was
crammed, my counsel was Alexander Stewart." He goes on to
tell of being led back to his ironbound stone cell; (the iron
grating scarcely a foot square which afforded the only chance
to see the light of day is in the Niagara Historical Room and
two culverts in the town were formed of the stone walls of the
condemned cell.) Mrs. Wait had taken a room near the jail, the
24th regiment was on guard, afterwards the 43rd, the commander
of the latter being much more compassionate to the prisoners
than the first. . Petitions for pardon were signed and taken
by his father and Rev. Mr. Johnson, of Drummondville, to Toronto
and Kingston, but preparations for the execution were made, a
hangman brought from Toronto, to avoid what had occurred in the
case of Morreau when the Sheriff had to perform this repulsive
task, one hundred dollars having been offered to a black man
in
In a letter from Niagara to a friend,
dated October. 13th, 1838, Mrs. Wait tells that on the evening
after the sentence had been pronounced she determined to go to
Quebec to petition the Governor-General, but everyone tried to
dissuade her, and said that she ought to stay to give consolation
to her husband, that appeal was useless, besides she might endanger
the life of her infant, which must be left behind. There were
barely two weeks, but she was firm against all opposition. Miss
Chandler determined to go with her to beg for her father's life,
in his ease there would be ten children left fatherless. A subscription
was taken up for Miss Chandler but none for Mrs. Wait as her
friends opposed her going. "It was urged that a daughter
pleading for the life of her father would be more likely to be
successful than a wife for that of her husband. This was poor
reasoning to me as I could not trust my husband's life to the
pleadings of anyone but myself much less to those of an inexperienced
girl of eighteen."
Before leaving, she begged the jail
surgeon, Dr. Porter, that were she unsuccessful the body might
not be given up for dissection but given to friends for burial.
James Boulton and Judge Butler are both mentioned as also Capt.
Richardson of the Transit, who gave Miss Chandler a free passage
and four dollars. The next morning before leaving Toronto, Mrs.
Wait went to see Jesse Ketchum, whom she had met when a girl,
had breakfast there and joined him and his wife at family worship,
before leaving this philanthropist gave her ten dollars to help
her on her way. Capt. Moody treated the two distressed ladies
with great kindness. Another steamer was taken at Kingston. Though
she speaks of the beautiful scenery her mind was too distracted
to enjoy it. Another steamer at Montreal for Sorelle, the residence
of Sir John Colborne, whose son gave a letter to the aide-de-camp
for the Governor-General at Quebec, but on reaching his residence
they could not obtain an audience but were told a message would
be sent to them By the kindness of the captain they were allowed
to remain on the boat overnight, and at ten the next morning
again went to the castle, but no decision had been reached. They
begged for an answer that day, as otherwise, Niagara could not
be reached in time. A pathetic circumstance is the drive in the
interval in a caleche through the streets and to the battleground
and the citadel to pass the time of suspense. On their return
found there was still no answer, were told one would be sent
to the boat before it sailed.
At this critical moment Miss Chandler
was in tears and Mrs. Wait begged leave to sit there till a reply
was given; if too late they would only arrive in time to embrace
the lifeless bodies of those they loved. Col. Cooper the aide-de-camp
finally went to intercede for them and returned with the news
of a commutation of the sentence. Lord Durham could not give
a free pardon till he had seen the documents but would give a
letter to Sir George Arthur, the Lieut.-Governor.
On the return journey much kindness
was received from a Mr. Simpson, M. P., as it was necessary to
intercept Gov. Arthur who was travelling, and inquiries
were constantly whether they had met or passed him. This gentleman
contributed twenty dollars, one half of which she gave to Miss
Chandler. At Cote de Lac, the steamboat was waiting for the arrival
of Sir Geo. Arthur, and on his appearance next morning another
trying interview took place as on the presentation of the dispatch
from Lord Durham he seemed annoyed, said he could not accede
to the. request. Mrs. Wait pleaded earnestly but she feared in
vain, and afterwards sat down to write to Lord Durham telling
him how his message had been received, honorably telling Gov.
Arthur the next day of what she had done, who seemed angry and
said "Before you send your letter to Lord Durham I wish
to You understand that I have granted a respite." We may
imagine with what feelings this was received, and she tells that
only now, when the strain was over did she begin to think of
her child, (she had been quite ill on the way from mental excitement
and the great strain). One pleasing feature all through is her
grateful mention of kindnesses received. Mr. Macaulay, the Secretary,
had spoken kindly to her, and now on the boat Bishop Mountain,
clad in his robes on the way to Toronto, was very kind. Niagara
was reached on the 22nd. She flew to the prison to convey the
joyful tidings but found the respite had not arrived and as she
had no papers to prove it had been granted, her news was hardly
believed. The next day she went back to Toronto to inquire, and
driving to the Chief Justice found he was not at home, then to
the Solicitor General, Judge McLean, but met him on the way,
by whom she was sent to Parliament, and met Mr. Sullivan, but
no news of the respite had come. If it arrived she was told it
would be sent next day on the Transit. In the interval she called
on Bishop Mountain, who promised his help. She had only time
to reach the boat, and arriving at six in the evening, found
she could not see her husband that night. On handing in his breakfast
the next morning she tried to offer encouragement but at eleven
the boat brought no good news and the long day dragged on' till
the arrival of the evening boat and still no message nor yet
on the Transit the next day at eleven, the 25th, and the day
appointed for the execution, but at noon the Sheriff, who had
gone to Kingston with prisoners, arrived on a Government Steamer
with the respite and the news was conveyed to the prisoners by
the Rev. Thomas Creen, the rector, of St. Marks, at half past
twelve.
After the overwhelming scene which
ensued she hurried off to see her babe twenty miles away with
its grandmother. It had been ill, but was brought next day on
a pillow to Niagara. The mention of the Sheriff (Alexander Hamilton),
recalls the story that the gruesome task he had been obliged
to perform, so preyed on his mind that he died shortly after
and the words of Wait have some bearing on this. "The execution
of Morreau had made such an impression on his mind that he was
glad of a respite and succeeded in gaining the Governor's boat
to convey the news."
The next letter is from Wait himself
who tells that on October 6th he was removed accompanied by the
jailer, Wheeler, to Toronto, and thence to Kingston, escorted
by soldiers, there they found many of their friends who had been
prisoners in Niagara jail.
From this strong fort had escaped
sixteen, by digging through a stone wall four feet thick and
traversing underground rooms and an outside trench. Many came
to see the scene of so daring an escape. The prisoners now used
various devices to keep themselves well employed, reading, writing,
making small boxes, portfolios, and Wait introduced the art of
making a curiously wrought paper memorial inscribed in elegant
style with names and short pithy mottoes which were eagerly sought
after and often sent to friends. An association for literary
improvement and amusement was formed, addresses given, etc. On
Sabbath one of the prisoners, Rev. Wixon, a Baptist minister
and the editor of a paper, who had lost one leg and walked with
a crutch, gave commentaries o~ the Psalms. His crime was an article
published in a newspaper.
On 4th November Mrs. Wait came with
Miss Chandler bringing clothing and food, but after this toilsome
journey in wintry weather, only five days of companionship were
enjoyed for now an order came for twenty-three prisoners to be
sent to Quebec.
An interesting circumstance is that
their guards on the way, the Glengarry Militia, were visited
by lady friends with fruit, vegetables, and other food, which
they kindly shared with the prisoners; on the way they saw the
smoking ruins of the houses of the habitants who had taken part
in the rebellion. At Quebec they found that a remarkable escape
from the Citadel had been made by Theller and Dodge. On the 22nd
November, the prisoners were sent to England in a vessel loaded
with timber, the room was dark and cold, they were treated as
felons, in chains, lodged with the worst criminals. The Mersey
was reached on Dec. 11th, and steps were taken' at once by the
prisoners to gain a hearing. They had determined to protest against
all illegal treatment and Wait seems to have been made their
spokesman. Many visitors showed kindness, particularly is mentioned
Dr. Buck, the prison chaplain, who is spoken of as a Christian
gentleman. Letters had been sent by Wait signed sometimes by
the, prisoners, sometimes by himself to Joseph Hume, Roebuck,
Lord Brougham, Lord John Russell, Lord Durham, asking for redress,
but apparently with little result.
A striking account is given of a frightful
storm at sea when sent to Portsmouth, the vessel returned in
five days, almost a total wreck, the shore was strewn with dead
bodies from the numerous vessels lost. The commander of the vessel,
Lieut. Pritchard, was most kind and reported the prisoners as
"mostly men of property, respectability and family, intelligent,
praying, moral men. I have frequently listened to their devotions
before they retired to rest."
At length reaching Portsmouth, they
were placed on a hulk for convicts and there met Sir P. Durham
(Admiral) brother of Lord Durham, and Wait was presented as "the
man whose life was saved by the unparalleled conduct of his wife,
who made a journey of 700 miles to present personally her petition
to Lord Durham." Here again on the York hulk the prisoners
shewed their ingenuity in making boxes, horsehair rings, paper
tokens in the shape of hearts; these were shown on shore and
Miss Strickland, the celebrated author of Queens of England,
sent to them several sheets of colored paper to make for a Bazaar,
with strict orders "to have the Day mentioned which increased
the demand and we thus purchased an extra loaf of good bread."
All this time they were kept in ignorance
of their fate but told they would not be sent out of England.
In spite of this they were on the 17th March sent to Van Dieman's
Land, a voyage of 16,000 miles, their hardships on the voyage
were so great that three of the nine died soon after landing
and Wait only recovered after months in the hospital. He was
sometime after assigned as clerk and storekeeper to a farm of
6,000 acres, also acted as teacher to five children for six months,
and in 1841 was granted a ticket of leave from the efforts of
his wife, who during all these weary years, had never ceased
her exertions for his release. We have passed over very slightly
the sufferings of the husband as this record is that of a wife's
devotion, and that of her partner only as it affected her.
The letters of Mrs. Wait tell the
rest of the story, sad indeed, but relieved by gleams of brightness,
one from New York in Aug. 1839; tells that she had been in Lockport
till May, two letters had reached her from Mr. Wait, as soon
as she knew of his being sent as a convict to Van Dieman's Land
she immediately left for Canada, resolved to obtain certificates
and petitions and go to England. She met on this canal boat for
Buffalo a warm hearted family from St. Thomas, named Wynen, who
sympathized with her and raised $30 to help. She then went to
Haldimand and meeting the Hon. Wm. Hamilton Merritt, obtained
from him letters and also a contribution of $20; then went all
through the Niagara District, being received kindly. The struggle
of parting with her child is thus described. "Could I leave
my child? I could not take her with me, and should I join my
husband in his exile, my heart must yearn for my absent child.
Could you my dear friend but imagine the heart rending effect
of these sad reflections I made it a subject of prayer to God
by day and in the vigils of the midnight hour continued my supplications
for guidance and direction, while pressing my dear babe to my
breast. Thus nearly a week of dreadful anxiety passed while I
continued my preparations, then I prayed with a fervor I bad
scarce ever experienced when a calm and consoling resignation
was diffused through the soul and I felt that the conflict was
past and I could leave her without a struggle. My youngest brother
brought from Dunnville a generous contribution, my aged father
bid me farewell at Tonawanda, being a refugee from his home.
I heard at Rochester of the release of nine of the prisoners
in London, some thought from this that I need not go to England.
I visited Mr. McKenzie in prison and at Syracuse I met the widows
of Woodruff and Buckley, whose husbands were sacrificed at Kingston
at New York the talented Mr. Bidwell called on me, offering more
than sympathetic words, benevolently opening his purse. The aid
I have received from kind Americans is $300, which with assistance
from friends in Canada may came far short of what I require,
my passage will be $75, which is $25 "less than the usual
sum."
The next letter is dated London, Dec.
30th, 1839, twenty-one days out, I first saw Mr. Ashurst and
Mr. Walker, their agents, and then went to Lord Durham with letters
from Mr. Merritt, which were sent by him to Lord John Russell
with letters from Mr. Durand and others. I met with many kind
Christian friends. Female prayer meetings were held to intercede
for husbands and fathers in bondage. I personally saw Lord John
Russell, who promised to present a petition to the Queen, this
was ultimately presented by Lord Normanby. I met Mrs. Fry, the
female Howard, of England, she is a friend of the Duchess of
Sutherland. I think her the most majestic woman that I have ever
seen. Lady Barham, a lady in waiting on the Queen, has most kindly
laid the matter before her Majesty, who is to use Lady Barham's
own language; "expressed herself as being much touched with
the circumstances and was pleased to say she would consult her
ministers on the subject when should it be deemed practicable,
she would be glad t(; listen to the application and grant the
request though it is most difficult to act in these matters."
Of the Queen, Lady Barham says "to know her is to love."
I am advised to wait the course of affairs in Canada and so cannot
go to Van Dieman's Land till a final answer is received, but
to stay is very expensive five dollars a week for board with
any comfort, from the humidity of the climate.
The Queen is to be married in February,
and there are hopes of a pardon then."
Letters are sent through friends to
Sir John Franklin, the Governor of Van Dieman's Land with regard
to Wait and Chandler. Application was made to the Queen on her
marriage but there were so many similar appeals that this one
was not granted. The Chartists are referred to as being sent
to Van Dieman's Land also.
"I have besieged the government
on every hand, had the best of influence which I think must eventually
prevail, if otherwise I will endeavor to reach the land of their
captivity and do something for them though I must leave my dear
child and friends in America."
A letter is quoted from Lady Grey
offering sympathy and help with letters to the isle of their
imprisonment. Sir Edward Parry, a contemporary navigator with
Sir John Franklin, is also pressed into the service. A kind letter
from Charles Buller, Secretary to Lord Durham, is given. Mrs.
Wait now becomes companion to a widow lady, Mrs. Ellis, with
whom she is very comfortable. Lady Barham writes that nothing
can be done at present for the prisoners, that "the Queen
regrets her inability to remove the cause of your distress."
She then looks forward to a six months' voyage.
A letter to her brother in May 1840
gives us two pictures of life in England, the beautiful countryseats,
and London in the May meetings of Christian and benevolent societies.
"The fields are rich with primroses,
daisies, cowslips and buttercups. I have welcomed the delicate
snowdrops, the crocus, the variegated polyatithus, the ever valued
smile of the violet at a time when our fields are still lying
under the pressure of snowbanks, indeed I have drunk in the beauties
of this early spring with a degree of ecstasy."
Then follows a description of the
church rates to be paid by all and the case of John Thorogood,
a shoemaker, in jail eighteen months for noncompliance. In all
her sadness she says "she has frequently laughed outright
when on the scene of the marvelous adventure of the famous John
Gilpin, particularly when on the road where he passed the sign
of the Bell at Edmunton and Mrs. Gilpin waited her smoking dinner
as so facetiously described by Cowper."
Her description of the meeting of
the London Missionary meeting at Exeter Hall with seats for 6,000
and well filled is particularly interesting to us now after 76
years, and shows a well informed mind, keenly alive to the progress
of the world, Sir George Grey, the son of the Lady Grey previously
referred to, took the chair and opened with an eloquent address
in which he spoke of the death of the Martyr, Rev. John Williams,
at Erromanga, which recalls to us our own Canadian Martyrs on
that Island fifty years later, the heroic Rev. Geo. Gordon and
his wife and afterwards his brother undeterred by the murder
of his relatives by the natives on what has been well named "the
martyr island." Missionaries from all parts of the world
spoke, among them Robert Moffatt, the father-in-law of David
Livingstone. Other meetings are spoken of, benevolent, scientific
and religious. One of the world's great conventions on the Rights
of man discussed the emancipation of the slave. Ladies were there
from America, but were not allowed to speak, according to the
rule which then governed these meetings, but some one spoke of
the ungallant Englishman who would not give a hearing to this
"Spartan band of women." At one meeting Prince Albert
spoke and was cheered enthusiastically, was called by Sir Robert
Peel "the right arm of the throne" and by Mrs. Wait
is spoken of as "the youthful and amiable looking Prince."
The Philanthropist Buxton, Archdeacon Wilberforce are also mentioned.
The last meeting was presided over by the Duke of Sussex, it
was packed and many were turned away. The French ambassador was
present, Monsieur Guizot, and many American gentlemen and ladies,
the Duchess of Sutherland, leaning on the arm of Mrs. Fry, the
venerable Thomas Clarkson, who was listened to with respect,
Judge Birney from America Mary Howitt Mrs. Opie, Daniel O'Connell.
"I fancied I had heard eloquence' before and I had heard
eloquence in that hall from the lions of English oratory but
this was eloquence that entranced the mind with its cadence and
melody in strains too bewitching to resist and elicited enthusiastic
cheering which transcends description." An American mulatto
spoke with ability and pathos; all this was in the afternoon
from two to five o'clock
A visit is also spoken of to the Zoological
Gardens the Tower and other places, her remarks showing a cultured
mind and knowledge of history and literature.
The next letter is dated London, July
2nd, 1840, and tells that after deciding to go to Van Dieman
5 Land she is advised by Buller to return to Canada instead and
petition Mr. Poulett Thompson, the Governor General, and a letter
of introduction is given her. Showing the versatility of this
admirable woman we find that expecting to go to her husband and
not knowing how she would support herself there she had entered
the Home and Colonial Infant School Society, to learn their methods
of instruction. After ten months in England, through the kindness
of friends a passage was taken for her to America, and she promised
her husband that should her hopes prove abortive she will with
her child join him. "Cheer up" she says "rise
superior to surrounding circumstances."
Again we find her on this side of
the Atlantic still assiduously working for these unfortunate
prisoners. In September 1840, she tells of writing to the Governor-General
and not being satisfied with the verbal reply, conveyed by J.
E. Small, Writes again and receives a letter from Government
House, Montreal, which only promises leniency and a ticket-of-leave.
Receives a letter from W. H. Merritt, M.P., enclosing one from
Sir John Franklin, in answer to appeals to him. It is somewhat
strange to us to see in what varied lights the same person is
spoken of by people in different circumstances, Sir John Franklin
known to us as the naval commander and to whom such a pathetic
interest attaches from his sad fate so long in doubt and the
persistent efforts of Lady Franklin, appears here as the ruler
of convicts in that distant island.
Her next visit was to Kingston to
appeal to Parliament and the Governor-General in person. More
than fifty members recommended her memorial among whom she mentions
Sir Allan MacNab, and by the Governor she was kindly received.
She then spent four weeks in the Niagara
District obtaining signatures to a petition asking for a free
pardon to all implicated in the rebellion and writes from Louth
to Mr. Merritt saying she could have the signatures of nearly
the whole province, mentions the good wishes of Mr. Thomson and
Mr. Thorburn, both members of Parliament. Mr. Merritt replies
that the House had addressed the Government and that the Home
Government and the Queen are urged to consent to a pardon. In
reference to the help by W. H. Merritt, M.P., Mrs. Wait calls
him "the worthy and distinguished member of Parliament and
her husband says, "his kindness will be remembered with
that deep sense of gratitude so eminently due."
This closes the letters of this remarkable
woman, as before the pardon was received, Mr. Wait had escaped
and after some months met his wife in Buffalo, where she was
teaching. Her exertions it is well to know were appreciated both
by her husband and the other prisoners as he speaks of the "energetic
conduct of my affectionate wife, notwithstanding the obstructions
thrown in her way and the difficulties she encountered"
"and Mr. Gemmel who had also escaped published a card attributing
his freedom to the exertions of Mrs. Wait, showing that her labors
were not for her husband, alone, but for ~s companions in suffering
as well.
Since writing the above, from a letter
received it is learned that Maria Wait was educated by Robert
Randall, M.P.P., that she died shortly after the birth of twins
in 1843, one of which survived, named Randall.
The infant, Augusta, was kept a great
part of the time of the mother's absence by Mrs. Gonder at Chippawa,
and the friends there who met to bid Mrs. Wait farewell saw her
while they were watching from the shore wipe away the fast falling
tears as the boat carried her from their sight. She is buried
in Buffalo, but it is feared no stone marks the spot where rests
the dust of this noble woman.
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